Like Marie, I loved my KidCo food grinder. Got a lot of use out of that one. The second baby didn't have a lick of "baby food" other than mashed sweet potato and avocado. She pretty much went straight to ground up whatever we were eating for dinner.
My favorite favorite accessory for #1 was my Baby Hawk mei tai carrier. I carried her in it pretty regularly until she was past three. #2 doesn't like to be carried as much, so even though she's just 2, we're kind of done with it. I figured out how to nurse with the baby in it with #2, and it made our trip to Disney when she was 4 months old super easy. Another thing that's neat about it is that you can choose the fabric--mine is a really pretty, modern floral and it makes me happy to have it.
Another idea would be glass baby bottles with silicone sleeves by Life Factory--I would have used these but they were cost prohibitive. Can't go wrong with a Kleen Kanteen sippy, too.
ETA: The Life Factory bottles made me think: there's a lot of eco-friendly stuff that's really cost prohibitive when you've got a young family. If your daughter leans that way, I'm sure there's lots that would make her happy!