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Just wondering what advantages big breast have prior to small breasts that can explain why men are "programed" to prefer big breasts instead of small breast. Do women with big breasts have more estrogen than women with small breasts? Big breasts does not equal lot of breast milk to the baby since also small breasts can produce a lot of breast milk, so that can not be the explenation? any thoughts?

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I don't think it's necessarily "big breasts", but a healthy, womanly figure that men are most attracted to. And a healthy, womanly (curvy) figure denotes fertility which leads to perpetuation of the human race and the male's bloodline. – sabretoothandclaw Sep 11 at 22:00
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Please don't stereotype us. I like small breasts. – Dan Sep 11 at 22:04
Reminds me of this video: youtube.com/watch?v=dcYlytyuKsc :) – raydawg Sep 13 at 11:15

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Because Big Breasts are awesome?

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Guess my husband missed that "programming", haha!

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This question should be reframed as why are Some *Western* men turned on by big breasts? Cultural conditioning. In various regions around the world, breasts are nothing more than functional baby feeding parts. As you may know, the Chinese fetishised the female foot and decided that women should use their feet to turn men on, rather than use them for the intended purpose of feet- for walking! I just read that in Papua New Guinea, where breasts are largely left uncovered throughout life, a witches curse condemns a woman to have "perky upright breasts like a young girl for her whole life!" there, and in many other places, and presumably in the Paleolithic era, breasts are for babies!

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Large, non-sagging breasts are a strong indicator that a women is of an age at which she is very fertile. Evolutionary selection pressures, consequently, should favor men who are attracted to such a feature

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This is what I was going to say. – Mike T Sep 11 at 22:11
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Boobs are all business...bum is where the party's at!

I'm also partial to rump roasts over chicken breast...I think I hear Freud's couch knocking...

Truth.

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My instinctive line of thought is

breast growth induced by estrogen ---> higher levels of estrogen induce greater breast growth ----> high levels of estrogen correlated with fertility ---> high fertility characteristic of a desirable mate

but don't quote me.

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I'll take a shapely derriere over large breasts any day, maybe that's just more indicative of fitness to my brain's wiring though...

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Personal theory, when you are baby regardless of the size of mamas breasts, they seem enormous, and are a nice soft place for a nap. They are just trying to recreate the feeling of being in their happy place, and scale up according to their current body size.

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I really don't want to be thinkin' of my Ma' when I see boobs, please take that back! LOL – Satchmo Sep 14 at 0:47
Never...muhaha! – Happy Now Sep 14 at 2:01
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I have always said that it's not that men prefer large breasts, but rather that larger breasts are more noticeable. Men love breasts period no matter the size.

For example, two women wearing the same shirt walk into a room, one with big breasts and one with small breasts. Because the shirt fits tighter and forms around the larger breasts more than smaller, the guy might be more inclined to look the way of the larger breasts. However, if the larger breasted woman wore a baggier shirt, and the smaller breasted wore a tighter, form fitting shirt, then he would definitely look at the smaller breasted woman.

From an evolutionary standpoint, in tribes of naked women, the larger breasts probably did win out because they were more noticeable. Thus, natural selection won out also.

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I don't favor big breasts over small ones. I prefer firm ones but other than that not much preference.

There's only so much you can do with a pair of breasts, once you get over the initial "Wow, breasts!" thing you run out of possibilities pretty quickly, the novelty wears off.

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Word. I realize the whole biological programming thing might not apply in my case, but the really big ones kind of scare me. Like, a person could smother in there and all. – Varelse Sep 11 at 21:40
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You're obviously not a breast man. For those of us who are, the novelty most certainly does not wear off. – Wisper Sep 11 at 21:40
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So as a breast man, what exactly do you do with them? – Poop Master MC Sep 11 at 22:13
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You had to ask.....youtube.com/watch?v=2yhy70PGBdU – Colin Sep 11 at 22:30
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If you have to ask, I feel sorry for you and the women you date. – Wisper Sep 12 at 0:27
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Aren't boobs supposed to be a proxy for a big buttocks (which equals wide child-bearing hips), which are part of an evolutionary sexual selection process like peacock feathers?

http://www.jstor.org/discover/10.2307/2460501?uid=2129&uid=2&uid=70&uid=4&sid=21101177641111 (some people get all the best research topics).

Certainly, in my mind, big buttocks and the best possible indicators of big breasts, when a "potential mate" is viewed from behind. So it probably works the other way around too.

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I don't actually think men prefer large breasts, women just think they do.

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Porn industry proves you wrong. – Wisper Sep 12 at 0:25
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... not all porn-ladies have particularly large breasts, some women are into porn, and not all men are into porn and those that are aren't necessarily watching it for the boobs or even seek out in real life what they see in the movie. – Varelse Sep 12 at 2:23
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I don't think we should be looking to workers in the porn industry for universal statements on what is attractive. Otherwise, we could say men are "programmed" to like obviously fake breasts. – Rachel Sep 12 at 16:52
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Yeah, Stoya has smaller breasts (around my size). Attractiveness studies I've seen show low levels of attraction for the truly flat chested, but once they get to be a reasonable size, the marginal benefits of attractiveness plateau, with only a few men really gunning for the large ones. – Bread-Eating Beelzebub Sep 13 at 0:41
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Sasha Grey is another popular one without huge breasts. – Bread-Eating Beelzebub Sep 13 at 0:43
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This thread is giving me a headache.

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Touch some breast then, even your own. – Monte Sep 12 at 3:11
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she has big breast then she's likely to have wide hips. That means there'll be less complications come pregnancy because there'll be easier for the child to get through. so she would be less likely to die during child birth.That's my theory on the matter.

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While that sounds logical on the surface, my experience is opposite. I had extremely large breast that started developing in childhood. Eventually, I had breast reduction surgery which was a great improvement. Years later, I became pregnant and the baby had to be delivered c-section, because my pelvis was too narrow. So, while I had enormous breasts, I most definitely did NOT have "child-bearing" hips. – Bastyrian Jan 5 at 20:48
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I think the waist/hip ratio is more of an attractant. I do seem to remember some folks actually researched this one, going around the world with drawings representing various waist/hip ratios. Men all picked the same thing, but in more traditional cultures the link to fertility was explicitly mentioned, while in the West the talk was, well, more juvenile and not properly linked to biology at all.

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"I like big breasts and i cannot lie" :)

But i'm more attracted to a fit body in general, with beautifully shaped legs. I think it has to do with what you mentioned, but i don't think it applies to every man, different cultures, prefer different body types, that dismisses the high estrogen theory.

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I think its the shape and the signs of health that are the most important. Shapely breast can come in all sizes and its the total package that really counts. I agree with another poster that big is just more noticeable under clothing so gets the most attention but most men would prefer a woman who is beautiful and healthy over one that is not so much but has big breasts.

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For me a flat chest on a woman is just not attractive,not feminine.

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Because it's the epitome of femininity? Why do straight men like vaginas?

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I think large breasts are the epitome of femininity for overweight women, cause it is a lot easier to have large breasts if you are 40 pounds overweight. – Poop Master MC Sep 11 at 21:30
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from a paleo view I think straight men like vaginas because if they didn`t it would be hard to reproduce the human race:P You can`t say the same thing about big breasts compared to small breasts. – norwegian girl Sep 11 at 21:31
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You know what they say...if men had vaginas they would starve to death! =) (Breasts, too.) – Amy B. Sep 12 at 1:58
Hmmmm. Great as they are, I don't think vaginas have anywhere near the same aesthetic appeal as breasts. The vagina might be the receptacle of the arousal - but many other bodily features contribute to the state of arousal itself. – borofergie Sep 12 at 8:08
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This is an obvious answer. It is a sign that they can feed the offspring. A better question is why do men like long thick hair on women but women don't like long thick hair on men, do societal customs outweigh natural instincts?

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small breasted woman can breastfeed just as well... – anne l Sep 11 at 23:26
True, but isn't it a question of robustness? Big breasts = more body fat = the potential to keep feeding the offspring for longer during times of food scarcity. – borofergie Sep 12 at 8:11
@anne. True, but men are too dumb to understand that :). Really though, that is something that we have come to understand over time, not something that a Paleolithic person would have understood. – CD Sep 12 at 15:08
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I agree with john e and don't think it matters so much, it's something in the eyes that seals the deal, for me anyway.

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No straight guy want's to have sex with a body that resembles a man. So more curves the better.

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Imo references to "straight" reveal insecurities about masculinity. – Poop Master MC Sep 11 at 22:34
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Comments about other men's insecurity are good ways to hide your own. – Satchmo Sep 11 at 22:51
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I don't see how objecting to "You don't like what I like, so you're gay" makes me insecure. A lot of unattractive men only have access to obese women so they try to justify it by claiming that non-obese women look like boys, it is a way for them to compensate. – Poop Master MC Sep 11 at 23:27
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So I down voted you because you're calling me a homosexual for not having a preference for large-breasted women. My preference for women encompasses a lot more than breast size, so that is not a focus. – alligator Sep 12 at 0:32
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WTF? Steve, DUDE. That's so disrespectful/yucky/bigoted. I'm technically obese. I'm also a HUMAN BEING moving around in a lovely, active, useful hourglass shape, complete with an advanced degree and professional career. No men are settling for me or any of my sisters. Access to obese women, my ass. – syrahna Sep 12 at 2:47
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I think this is a tough question to ask. The "desirable" traits in women have evolved over the years. So what paleolithic man found desirable is not what we are attracted to today. We don't know, maybe large breasts were seen as a bad thing...

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I'm an ass man myself... How do I know this?

Many people have told me: "Your an ass man."

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Are you sure people weren't tell you, "You're an ass, man"? ;) – alligator Sep 12 at 13:14
exactly that.... – eric Sep 12 at 17:52
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alligator clearly didn't get the joke lol – jake Sep 13 at 1:31
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large breasts tell a man that a women has a large progesterone level. The larger the breasts the more optimal her Pg/E2 ratio this is. This also correlates with the hip to waist ratio in women. It also ironically correlates with gut health. A higher level of the pro-GESTATION hormone called progesterone. Most modern humans are starved for progesterone because modern life keeps them in the survival pathway of cortisol. This pathway is an oxidation pathway. It ages you faster. Evolution says, the cell must always chose between "survival or reproduction," (survival=cortisol, and reproduction = reduction and progesterone) and the inflammation levels are the "traffic cop" who helps make that decision for us.

Hence, this is why we see upside down PG/E2 ratios in all modern neolithic diseases. When this happens chronically, the lab panels we order show increased HS CRP, increased E2, and LR, with LOW free T3 levels. Lowered Vitamin D levels are an epidemic because modern life forces us to live in a constant state of oxidation of the survival pathway (cortisol).

Big breasts are a sign of a female who lives in a pathway of reduction, low cortisol, low inflammation, and pro-gestation........men are designed to opt for that because it means the offspring of that coitus is more likely to do well because high progesterone levels lead to superior brain development in humans which correlates with excessive longevity. Progesterone levels are critical for humans.

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Hmm, I have low cortisol, low inflammation, and I'm stuck at a B cup. Please tell me doctor, how can I make my boobies enlarged? And why cross-cultural studies don't show that big boobies are universally appealing to men (unlike WHR)? – Bread-Eating Beelzebub Sep 13 at 0:38
Based on my mom's experience, what I really need to do is just get knocked up. – Bread-Eating Beelzebub Sep 13 at 0:41
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+1 interesting view – meta Sep 13 at 4:05
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That kind of makes it sound like women with smaller breasts have a medical problem. There is nothing wrong with small breasts. – Varelse Sep 13 at 5:07
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I like big booty bitches

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Why the downvote? It is a question about boobs so I don't see how is a response about asses would be inappropriate. – Varelse Sep 13 at 4:37
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Bigger breasts may be an indication of a healthy amount of body fat for optimal reproduction.

But not every dude (or woman) out there prefers larger breasts. Genetically speaking, I may not have been chosen for mating in paleo times because of smaller breasts, but my hips are pretty bangin'. Nowadays, anybody can reproduce, so breast size doesn't matter, and more people out there like different sizes.

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They can carry more fat soluble vitamins

duh

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I actually just had a conversation with my guy friends the other day about this and ALL of my friends -- except for myself -- actually prefer women with smaller breasts. It's all about knowing what you like and being okay with that. Me? I like tig ol' bitties, and I'm okay with that.

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'Evolutionary Psychology' is just a matter of drawing Texas Bullseyes around currently observed phenomena.

Big breasts are important to some men in some cultures, not so for others. Bernarr Macfadden is said to have promoted big ones to his readership. Hard to tell at this distance how important this influence is today.

Reasonably: women have breasts, larger breasts are easier to see from a distance, ergo, more attention for woment who have them. Otherwise there is not much to say except 'Just So' stories.

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