so much of what attracted me to the paleo way of eating and being was the simplicity of it all. long before i knew what the paleo diet was, when i was vegetarian and raising my first baby, i would go to this mothers group for moms and babes 0-4 months old. it was great, but the level of neurosis in there made me start to dread it. i always sort of felt that my baby would let me know what she wanted, and that if i couldnt figure it out it was because i wasnt paying attention. that attitude served me well for the most part. i saw other mothers in the group spinning themselves into depression and hystericas and anger and resentment and fear over things like, "my mother in law told me not to pick up the baby when hes crying, but i want to." and, "someone in the checkout line said that my baby was too skinny and that i needed to supplement with formula; should i?" and, "what sacrifices to i need to make so i can afford the 300 dollar diaper bag to match my 700 dollar stroller?" it all seemed INSANE to me. so, i blogged about my new invention, "instinctual parenting" or "evolutionary parenting." pretty sure i wasnt the first one to come up with that, but the idea was essentially to just follow your gut and do whats best for you and your baby, and that you know your baby best. if i ever was in a situation where i didnt know what to do, i would always ask myself, "what would a mother in rural guatemala do? what would a mother do ten thousand years ago?" i have to say, the answer was always the right one, and that little mothering hack made our life so much easier, funner, healthier, happier and simpler.
its a long way of saying that i really appreciated dr. harris' post. i read it as an invitation to relax, to be in tune with your body and what it needs, what it craves, how it feels, and to go with that. i personally like having a list of specific foods that i avoid, and leaving it at that, not fretting when i eat soybean oil on occasion, or if there are trace amounts of gluten in the soy sauce at the restaurant. thats just best for me. i tend to (and you do too- dont deny it) get caught up in the specifics of food. several times a day i hear the voice in my head telling me to settle down and just make the healthiest choice. i think that the voice of reason, or the voice of least-neurosis, should be loudest for some of us.