I know tooth decay is completely preventable and reversible. Good nutrition high in fat soluble vitamins and minerals and removal of sources of simple sugar, lectins and phytates helps a lot.
An emphasis should be put on vitamin D, K2 and A. Weston Price noticed that tooth remineralization didn't happen without adequate vit-D and k2 and that the k2 was necessary to activate the vit-D.
I wrote an article about it here:
http://paleodietlifestyle.com/preventing-and-healing-tooth-decay/
My teeth used to hurt and started to become sensitive to cold liquids, but it stopped when cutting sugars. Cutting regular toothpaste has also helped, I now brush once in a while with coconut oil and baking soda.