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I've been at this for about 5 weeks now, which I think is long enough for me to confirm that there is a marked difference in my personality on paleo. Mostly it has to do with a lack of the low level anxiety and worry that used to pervade my days. I also generally feel happier, more optimistic, and friendlier. Another thing that I never really realized is that I used to have a slight fear of people or would often feel awkward around people, especially strangers. Now I find myself striking up conversations with anyone and everyone. Rather than the extreme highs and lows, I tend to be more even-keeled and balanced. It's truly amazing!

Has anyone else experienced the same positive benefits from paleo? I'd be curious to hear your story.

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no question it does......changes your neurobiology. – The Quilt Jun 8 2011 at 20:19
@dlk -- resonding yes! Eating Paleo has manifested with massive changes in mood-harmony. – Patrik Jun 8 2011 at 21:34
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Better living through chemistry! I am MUCH more focused having left grains behind. – Marie Jun 8 2011 at 23:20
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reading all these responses is so exciting! I've always thought there was a connection between diet and mood, but this goes way beyond what I would have thought was possible. – dlk Jun 9 2011 at 10:37
I used to be "afraid" of people too and that disappeared completely which is awesome. It's like i got rid of these virtual chains. I thought it was only me but apparently it's a normal thing to happen :) – Flavio M. Jun 9 2011 at 10:40
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All my anxieties just sort of melted when I started this. I feel that it has not only improved my life, but the lives of those I interact with everyday. I'm kind of laughing at my earlier life as a vegetarian, and fearing that eating meat would bring about some sort of misanthropic blood lust, quite the opposite, my ability for compassion has grown exponentially.

That said, I have noticed the side effect of having lost interest in drama for drama's sake, be it in cinema or in people. Feelin' good, but increasingly bad movie buddy. I'm more interested in talking to the person working the concession stand or ticket taker than watching neurotic characters on a big screen suffering from an obvious offal deficiency

My mind whirs with the potential for this though. Could a nourishing diet cure xenophobia, end road rage, end child abuse, drastically reduce both our incarcerated and institutionalized populations, bring about world peace? Or would it just destroy independent cinema as we know it?

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I still have road rage. – StephNY Jul 13 2011 at 19:34
I'll try not to get in front of you on the road. – Happy Now Jul 13 2011 at 19:40
:) I hoped it would go away. I think it's a part of my personality, through and through. Or it could just be the bad drivers on the road. Otherwise speaking of mood, I'm much more difficult to anger now! – StephNY Jul 13 2011 at 20:05
I think a healthy diet can bring about a person's true self. In some cases (like me and StephNY), road rage might be a permanent factor. 8) – Ali Jul 13 2011 at 21:17
I know I've got my paleo goggles on a little too tight sometimes, but sometimes when I'm enraged by someone making bad driving choices in front of me, I want to scream, "If you didn't have pop tarts for breakfast, you wouldn't be such an idiot!" So maybe all drivers would have to make the switch before we'd know for sure whether it made a difference. – Happy Now Jul 13 2011 at 22:15
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It's as if I had been living a bad dream before Paleo. I used to think that despair was normal. War, hunger, the nagging idea that I, too, could lose my job and end up on the street piloting a shopping cart. Waking up in the middle of the night and realizing that I would one day be dessert for a platoon of bacteria.

I feel as though I have finally defeated death. I don't feel like I can explain it to people who aren't Paleo. Fortunately, you guys understand. I'm like that Zen guy, only I have electrical heating, instead of wood. I would turn cartwheels, if I didn't suck at them.

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"I feel as though I have finally defeated death." huh? Death may beg to differ? – JoeBranca at paleoplusone.com Jun 8 2011 at 21:05
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Joe, if you feel that way, then you need to tighten up and eat more strictly. You are obviously not "there" yet in terms of enjoying the bounties that Paleo has to offer. Just sayin' – Thomas Seay Jun 8 2011 at 21:11
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Lol............ – The Quilt Jun 8 2011 at 23:10
:-)) Hee hee +1 – Chickenosaurus Rex Jun 8 2011 at 23:39
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Only someone who has never looked death in the eye but sits safely tucked in his air conditioned office in Silicon Valley, could make such an absurd and childish statement. – L. Peltier Jun 12 2011 at 10:03
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I noticed the same thing. I always had low-grade depression and anxiety. Now I feel so much better mentally. I can also handle stress much better. I notice that if I stray from good eating that I'm more likely to get pissed off at people and situations.

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Yeah, there's nothing that pisses me off more than beanie-weenies. Man, if I see a plate of those suckers, I just want to go on a rampage. – Thomas Seay Jun 8 2011 at 23:21
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I noticed a significant increase in confidence (determined by willingness to approach people, including strangers, and engage in conversation), a significant boost in mental focus/concentration, and an overall balancing effect when I went Paleo.

It's not as noticeable now, but I think that it is more a factor of my new "baseline" level of functionality now being set higher.

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I lost my religion and don't miss it at all.

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Yes, me too. I was very reticent and awkward in social situations, often with nothing to say to strangers, or going on incessantly if someone was friendly to me. Either way, it was very uncomfortable and I was embarrassed by what I thought was my introverted nature. After GAPS/Paleo, like you, I lost my fear of people and can chat easily with anyone. It seems I actually have a spontaneous sense of humor around people, too! It's so nice to feel at ease and to actually WANT to accept invitations to parties, etc. Did you notice something change with your gaze, too? Before Paleo, I always dropped my eyes when around people. Now, I can look at someone until they look back at me, and I can keep gazing at them until we both start smile or laugh or talk or something. It seems totally natural. I notice too that babies can keep gazing until the person connects with them. So, I now feel I may have been slightly Autistic or Aspergers before (self-diagnosed of course). There's definitely a gut-brain connection.

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I definitely feel better. I uses to have a very negative and nervous outlook. I don't feel obsessive anymore nor do I feel overwhelmed. I used to constantly feel overwhelmed by very normal day to day stressors.

Weightloss is definitely not the only benefit.

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I never really had issues with stress, worry, or anxiety - I've always been a fairly relaxed, easy-going person. So I haven't noticed any increase in my "chill" factor.

However, I've been told by friends that I am noticeably more confident / challenging / engaging than during my pre-paleo days. It seems that as I've become more and likely to take on just about any physical challenge, my tendency to take on intellectual, conversational, and inter-personal challenges has increased to match - so much so that it surprises people who have known me for a very long time as a laid-back kind of dude.

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This has been my experience: I'm naturally a laid back, go-with-the-flow person. I find I'm more willing to be confrontational and stand my ground. Sometimes I'm surprised to find myself in the middle of a debate, which I used to always avoid. – Ali Jul 13 2011 at 21:10
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I just thought it was because I lost a considerable amount of weight, but now that you all have mentioned it and have brought it to my attention I'm thinking there might be more to the diet from a chemical balance standpoint? I think I like the side effects of the diet :)

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yes, I've only lost about 2-3 lbs (was my weight was fine to begin with), so this is my main benefit so far, and it's worth it! – dlk Jun 9 2011 at 10:17
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I've been paleo-ish for about two weeks (def. eating meat, just not giving up dairy yet haha), going from vegetarian (!). After some time on vegetarianism, I had completely lost my cheerfulness and outgoing personality and had trouble making contact with people and keeping in touch with them. I also started to become more and more anxious and depressed, mostly a low level anxiousness all the time with several suicide attempts. I have definitely noticed a big difference. The anxiousness is gone, I am happier overall, in a generally better mood, and have slowly begun to be more outgoing again. I never thought it had to do with what I ate. I just couldn't figure out why the words wouldn't come when I wanted to speak to someone!

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There's a lot of interesting research about vegetarianism and issues like depression. If you don't already, check out Emily Deans's blog. So glad you're feeling better! – Karen P. Jun 22 2011 at 5:22
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No doubt about it. I've talked about this a little bit on my blog, most recently in a post about the research behind gut flora and behavior.

I've sailed through flights (I'm normally FREAKED about flying) and several nights of stressful entertaining (used to get in an absolute tizzy) without killing anybody. It's amazing. Miracle cure.

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well, no. mood does not equal personality, which is a fairly static and enduring set of traits. my mood has improved. my confidence, certainly. my energy levels. all of that is better now than it was before when i was sick (with MS and with stress and with general poor health and coming off a rough pregnancy) but frankly it couldnt hve been much worse where i was coming from! i was a damn train wreck.

so i guess i would say that im healthier and happier, and that has reflected itself into other areas of my life and my relationships, thereby also improving the lives of those around me.

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I get your point, but I think it's a little of both personality and mood. for example, I always thought of myself as a shy introvert (my fear and anxiety around people), but I guess I'm not. – dlk Jun 9 2011 at 10:24
Introversion and social anxiety are different and seperate things though. Intoversion/extroversion tends to be a trait people express from birth to death, and refers more to where you get your energy recharged - do you feel more relaxed going on a walk alone or reading a book, or going dancing with friends or to a party? Someone can be an extrovert but have a touch of social anxiety on top that can be alieviated with lifestyle changes and makes it easier to express their extroversion. Sorry for typos. On my phone! – being Jun 9 2011 at 11:40
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Maybe I was always an extrovert with diet induced social anxiety, but I do feel like I flipped a switch from introvert to extrovert. – Happy Now Jul 13 2011 at 18:23
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I'm definitely more confident. Every other diet I've been on, I've cooked 'ordinary' food for the rest of the family. This time I've changed my way of eating and theirs as well - they don't get a choice!

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yep, I'd agree with that! Somehow the body returns to a harmonious balance, hormones included!

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I'm curious about this myself. My wife just got us going on a 30-day "Paleo Challenge" and I'm nine days in. I've had social anxieties, and have been even diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome. I get by without any major anxiety these days, but I'm interested to see if I get even better.

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