I am just very skeptical of all of the artificial sweeteners. Think about it, you are putting something in your body that tastes sweet but isn't.
Years ago saccharine was considered safe and fun. Then they found it caused tumors, etc. I think each artificial sweetener has gone through a similar progression (not that they all cause tumors, but ill health effects were found). I suspect we'll find the same thing with splenda.
We just weren't built to eat lots of sweets, especially those that are refined to have no food value. Seth Roberts has done some research suggesting that eating sweet foods raises your body's "set point" i.e. internally-determined ideal weight. So it isn't only the calories and insulin spike from the sugar that are bad for you, but the flavor itself.
I think that all sweet flavors of all kinds, natural or artificial, should simply be avoided. When you do this, you'll find that you are sensitive to a lot of other flavors that you missed earlier, and some things like the fat around meat will start to taste sweet. This will also train you to look for flavor and satisfaction elsewhere which will encourage you to eat more "real" foods.