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Alright, I have a question for everyone out there. Does anyone know of any great sites that ONLY cater to Paleo Dating? I know there's all those okcupid, plentyoffish, eharmony crap out there, but something just for folks who eat Paleo and live the Paleo lifestyle. If not, I'm probably giving someone a great idea to make bank in the Paleo world, but I don't care, as long the idea spreads!

The more Paleo couples = Paleo babies = More folks to spread the word.

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You of course mean "paleo babbies". How are they formed? – smcdow Oct 31 2011 at 2:38
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Were at 7 billion. No shortage of babbies. Paleo or not! – Meghan Oct 31 2011 at 2:58
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7 BILLION, yes but how many of the 7 billion will be fertile...fertility is at an alltime low.... – Mallory Oct 31 2011 at 16:54
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No. I don't think that extremely poor, uneducated populations will ever take over just because they have the highest birth rate. I think they won't be able to sustain themselves. I want women to be fertile as it is an indicator of good health, but their SUV driving babies aren't goin to be good for mine. I think 1 paleo kid per 2 paleo parents would more than suffice for the time being. Just a matter of not taking more than you can give... And I definitely see having 2+ kids (at this population) as taking, not giving. – Meghan Oct 31 2011 at 17:27
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I actually launched a dating site for all dieters (I've been paleo for almost 3 years now) to solve this specific problem. It's called SamePlate.com and it's 100% free! Please visit it today, and start dating that caveman or cavegirl today! SamePlate.com, the dating site that matches people by the food they eat (or don’t eat)! And unlike other sites that charge a premium to contact other members, SamePlate is 100% FREE!!! SamePlate.com: Same Food, Same Love, Same Life. No need for pick up lines, and none of the pressures of dating — Just start a conversation about food! Sign up, list all you – Jeff Nimoy Jul 11 at 14:36
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I feel like it would be more efficient for us to hook up with non-paleo people so as to convert them and double our paleo baby numbers.

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Ditto...small pond at the moment. – Marie Oct 31 2011 at 0:49
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This is true if effective. Otherwise, it can lead to locked cabinets, disorder, and awkward meals. It's hard to even date girls who eat a lot of gluten and dairy...Especially when you see how Paleo girls look and act when compared. Paleo has saved me, yet ruined me. – Aaron Oct 31 2011 at 0:51
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Same. When someone offers me bread or candy and I opt out, they ask why. Then it gets awkward, because "it's my diet." Explanation over why I am dieting follows. The explanation is seldom sufficient. – affine Oct 31 2011 at 1:18
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Affine, just say you have a wheat allergy. – Kasra Oct 31 2011 at 1:53
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I would not say that I had an allergy in any circumstance where I might eventually have to change my story (such as dating), especially since "I feel better when I avoid wheat/gluten/grains" is equally understandable and presumably more truthful. – jess6 Oct 31 2011 at 20:09
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Hey Aaron - my site does just that and will be ready to be launched in a few days - just a few finishing touches!

I'll keep you posted!

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Awesome. Will it be free? You have my support and I'll be linking to you from my site (www.simplepaleonow.com) I'm glad someone else is thinking the same way! – Aaron Oct 31 2011 at 1:37
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Thanks Aaron! Yes, it's going to be completely free - and will remain free! I've been completely over online dating for a while, fed up with meeting CW people who have no interest in Paleo which was why I started building this! So much work, but hopefully will all be worth it! Actually, if I got a date with a Paleo guy, that would make it worth it alone! – Suz - Paleo Oz Oct 31 2011 at 2:34
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Best news I've had all day. I am there! – Shari Bambino Oct 31 2011 at 2:46
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Cool!:) Is it for non-US people too? – Joey Oct 31 2011 at 22:07
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Yes - it's finally just about ready! Would love to hear what you think paleoconnect.com – Suz - Paleo Oz Nov 29 2011 at 17:06
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It makes sense to look for someone with whom you have similar values, but I wouldn't make paleo the foundation of my relationship. People grow and change over time. If you want a lasting relationship there has to me more than just current interests binding you together. What would you do if your SO decided to follow a different dietary path at some point in the future? Break up? Divorce?

I know of several successful mixed-dietary-style relationships. It only ever seems to be a problem in relationships that were already floundering. The foundation of a good relationship is mutual respect and love, not identical thought processes.

I'm not saying there is anything wrong with a paleo dating site, but there is a lot more to a successful relationship than perfectly matched dietary preferences.

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For me it's about a lot more than just dietary preferences. I would find it very hard to date someone who didn't care about their health. I'm so interested in Paleo it would be great to date someone who "got it" too. Obviously there would have to be a lot of other boxes ticked, but for me - ticking the Paleo box is pretty important – Suz - Paleo Oz Oct 31 2011 at 2:53
I agree it would be difficult to be in a relationship with someone who didn't care about their health, but there are a lot people who care about their health that aren't paleo. – Kewpie Oct 31 2011 at 3:12
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Couldn't agree more. Dietary preferences wouldn't even be in the top five. Values, interests, personality, long-term plans would be more important. Fishing in the small paleo pond might not be the best strategy to find a match that works across all dimensions. – Sigrid Oct 31 2011 at 12:30
My partner isn't paleo, and I don't care. Dating web sites are restrictive enough--I doubt we would have gotten together if we had met that way, and here we are 12 years later .... – zoomia Jul 28 at 17:25
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GROK met women in person back in the old days. Sterotypically, he met them with a club and not at a club. Also, he got a chance to evaluate indicators such as hygeine and odor before he would commit to anything else including weeks of chat conversation. You can't tell some things over the internet. You can smell things like diabetes and infection sometimes in a person who isn't smothered in perfume.

Just joking about clubs, I think Grok was probably quite nice to women actually seeing as how all they had to do was walk away and there was no officer to file a missing persons report or internet to track them down.

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Absolutely awesome answer! – RaiseFitness Jul 18 at 19:09
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it's so obvious that being paleo alone won't necessarily result in a match. Can't see anywhere on this post where anyone made that claim.

However it's a dam good place to start if it's an option! Eating and health is a huge part of life and everyone who eats paleo knows this. You find a match in this category and you tick more than one box!

I agree about the internet. once again when you see someone in real life it answers more than one question. paleo speed dating could be a good idea. even better if they provided paleo cuisine at the event.

the pool of paleo people might not be that big but that's not what the discussion is about. if it works it works. most people only need to find one person (at a time anyway).

it's ridiculous to object to this idea. it doesn't hurt anyone. sounds great to me.

Also, if you don't look for paleoish type people at the outset and you find someone anyway, you get married, you somehow (with difficulty) make it work with this major difference in beleifs, you get to about 50 or 60 years old and the non paleo parter gets sick as predicted and eventually dies (the whole experience pretty tough although completely avoidable), what do you do then?? Start all over again? why not just get it right at the start?

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If you cook tasty meals and are an example of health its not that hard to get your partner to eat Paleo. My GF is resistant to new ideas and proudly ate mostly Taiwanese food (her ethnicity) but she now eats 80% paleo. Whenever she was at my house I would make us paleo breakfast, lunch and/or dinner and then would point out to her how much better we feel after eating vs after eating a high carb, gluten laden meal. Now when she does stray its rice noodles or maybe some soy milk in coffee. Since she realized herself how much better she feels when eating paleo she is now the one that insists we follow the diet a alot of the time.

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I actually launched a dating site for all dieters (I've been paleo for almost 3 years now) to solve this specific problem. It's called SamePlate.com and it's 100% free! Please visit it today, and start dating that caveman or cavegirl today!

SamePlate.com, the dating site that matches people by the food they eat (or don’t eat)! And unlike other sites that charge a premium to contact other members, SamePlate is 100% FREE!!! SamePlate.com: Same Food, Same Love, Same Life.

No need for pick up lines, and none of the pressures of dating — Just start a conversation about food! Sign up, list all your favorite foods and the diets you’re on, and search for your perfect food match! Even post pics of food and recipes! Join today for free at SamePlate.com!

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I wish more people used OkCupid and put the word Paleo in their profile. Then you can use the keyword search feature in OkCupid to find other Paleo daters.

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Wanting to be with someone you have something in common with is a big commonality for me. Paleo is a huge part of my life and I want to date someone who eats the same way I do so I started a new site for dating Paleo, PaleoSingles.com. Just being with someone Paleo like me makes cooking dinner more pleasant, finding the right place to eat out more exciting and understood by your bf/gf. Once I went Paleo I wanted to figure out a good way to meet other Paleo eaters, its a lifestyle choice and a big one for me now, so hopefully the site will work for others too.

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This is on the same level of racism and fascism. just like being black, white, jewish, or protestant does not define you as a person, the kind of food you eat does not either. Careful with this line of thinking.

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Do you also object to the Christian dating sites, the vegetarian dating sites, the Mensa, Indian, gay, black and other niche dating sites? Specialized dating sites have become quite common. I really doubt the OP actually plans to take over the world by breeding paleo kids. – Karen Jul 18 at 19:14
WTF? Religion actually does define you as a person much more than what you eat. Comparing food lifestyle to racism is a little extreme. – Jason Jul 18 at 19:30
I think that is kind of ridiculous. So what? I could care less what her interests are, hobbies are, whatever so long as we .. but is it so much to ask that I prefer a woman makes her fitness and health a priority? Perhaps not paleo per say, but damn I would rather my girl eat well at the very least. – Zach Jul 28 at 18:17
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http://www.paleoconnect.com/

Never used it tho.

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This would be great. Most people have no idea what paleo is.. And people like my soon to be ex husband try to undermine me (in regards to our son) so really paleo or not is definitely going to be more important than religion (which is never important to me) or what have you the next time I go looking for a potential partner or especially potential sperm donor...

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I went to both Sameplate.com and paleoconnect.com and searched for Female searching Male in Los Angeles, CA and got 1 profile each to be found. In Los Angeles. I wish there were more profiles on these sites, I would totally date from those pools :(

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