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Thanks Tim for the huge influence you’ve had on my life.

Here’s my idea and like many of the other posters here have said: I’m going to do it with or without you.

Mastering Relationships How can I build the best relationships with my girlfriend, mother, father, brother, boss, co-workers, coach, teammates, and friends?

How can I learn to make new relationships? How can I learn to strengthen/hack the relationships that I have to make them more productive and more efficient? How do I evaluate my relationships to know if they are working or need to be ended?

As a 30-year old man, I’m happy with my job (4HWW) and making great progress on my body (4HB). It’s time to address the relationships in my life. Gun to my head, I would go back to the experts and re-read the business books I’ve read on the topic. I would add in some more personal life oriented books. I would take notes. I would start to journal or blog every day on the reading and my progress. I would take long vacations to where my family lives and with my girlfriend with the intent of strengthening relationships. I would attempt to talk to at least one stranger a day.

How to talk to strangers. How to make new friends. How to pick the 5 people you want to have the most influence on your life.

How to manage a long-term relationship with a significant other as it hits important milestones. It’s time to go beyond casual dating and the 4HB female orgasm.

How to rebuild the relationships with siblings and parents that we so often neglect in our college years.

How to build trust with clients, co-workers, and managers.